The thoughts of a 20-year-old who sometimes feels her life only
revolves around school, work, and mostly shidduchim. Get ready for some drama!
Probably yes..It really depends on the circumstances that let to it.
I would dig into details of why that happened, but anyway you don't lose much.
As long as it's not a really messed up situation of course I would. People make mistakes, why should they be punished or ostracized? I know several people who have had broken engagements and they all say the same thing, "B"H people go out with me. If they didn't how would I ever get married?"
It completely depends on the circumstances, but I would say yes much more than no.
ditto to something different.broken engagements are sooo much more common now (unfortunately). i actually just went out with a guy who has a broken engagement.
I guess it would depend on who broke it and how it was broken.I went out with a fabulous guy who was engaged before. He was a huge mentch who happened to have suffered thru a broken engagement. Unless the boy or his family have some issue that caused the engagement to be broken, or if they're just not nice people, what's the big deal?
CP- is he still single?? ;)
A broken engagement is not enough of a reason to say no - although I will think twice (as I do before any person I'd go out with) and over here, I would try find out why it happened... There are plenty of people (unfortunately) who have had broken engagements and they are still wonderful people and deserve a fair shot.After finding out the reason why it happened, if it is an okay reason given (and I may or may not find out the REAL reason), I would go out.Going out doesn't mean you have to marry them! It's a date - that's only step one.
SD--I think so. He was really great. But he was one of those who said no to me after a few dates :-) Oh, well:-D
CP-im glad you still think he's great even after he said no to you... some girls aren't like that
Argh. Some girls can be so petty. He's a nice guy, period.Why should the fact that he said no make him the big bad wolf? He's not for me. That's all :-)
CP- so who is his PR rep?
yeah, SD, i wanna go out with this guy lol
If he is good enough to turn down CP he must be really really really good, huh? ;-)
or he could be seriously stuck up. Kinda like TBB.....
but TBB wouldn't get stuck-up because he's TBB (come on, we discussed this already :)
But if he *thinks* he is TBB but really he has an inflated ego.... sigh. You are right. We exhausted this topic already.
yeah we don't want the guy who *thinks* he is TBB, we want *the real* TBBat least do! so i guess we'll have to fight for him!! lol
It's a good thing I saw this before, so I had time to think about it and form an opinion. Cause I was asked this question recently, so I decided to be open about it, and ask for information.
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