Thursday, December 11, 2008

No Patience!!!

I hate it!!! shidduchim take forever.
even if someone told me that they redt me a boy and then they have to hear back from him, it could be months until i actually hear something back - and usually i don't hear anything from them! its really frustrating. like this girl told me that she has a guy for me so i sent her my resume and its been like a month and i haven't hear anything. i hate the stupid lists that guys have- or really, their mothers have... its crazy. honestly, there must be a better way. 
everything just takes the longest time. and then i get my hopes up and nothing comes out of it. my mom's friends have this habit of asking us first if we're interested before they even get a yes from the boy's side and then i may not even find out if they're interested or not.
im sure people have ideas of how to better the system. wanna share?

3 comments:

EsPes said...

i hate when ppl tell me they might have a shidduch for me- cuz then u wait around to hear back about it and sometimes they never get back to u!

tembow said...

uch! i hate that!

The Babysitter said...

I hate lists, people said they had someone for me, but they had a list, so I told them forget it. It makes me feel so inferior and unwanted, that it's not worth it.

Its funny cause when I was 17, everyone said they had someone for me, I got like 10 suggestions, but every time I told them I wasn't dating yet. Then when I turned 19 I said that I would start to date, and then there was nothing. Then a few people made suggestions and they said they would get back to me, but I never got my hopes up, I just forgot about it, then one person actually got back and was insistent on setting up a date, so I did so...that didn't work out, but at least I got the experience.

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